Saturday, May 29, 2010

Toronto: Royal Ontario Museum



























Royal Ontario Museum is actually the fifth largest museum in North America, containing more than six million items and over 40 galleries.
It has notable collections of dinosaurs, Near Eastern and African art, East Asian art, European history, and Canadian history.
It's very interesting to see some exhibits from China and those were actually donated by some Western collectors.

Friday, May 28, 2010

Matt Hartley: Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg to blame for privacy mess

It is always human nature that there is some part of our life that we may or may not want to disclose at some different time with different social groups.

In modern term, we simplify it as "privacy".

I admire Mark's vision and I call it "communism" of modern media.

I understand more why he put "Friends" as the core connecting step in Facebook but its future survival is worrisome if it deviates much from the nature of human being.

Fine tuning is needed and he seems to be listening...


Matt Hartley: Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg to blame for privacy mess

Read more: http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=3084666#ixzz0pHpTeljJ

Matt Hartley, National Post
Published: Friday, May 28, 2010


The big mess surrounding Facebook's privacy controls -- the disgruntled users, the angry government watchdogs, the organized boycotts -- should all fall squarely on the shoulder's of the company's 26-year-old founder and chief executive.

After all, Mark Zuckerberg is the one with the vision of a world where the Internet is no longer a private and anonymous experience, but rather a social tapestry, where people share their daily digital travels with not only their friends, but the rest of the world.

He's the one who wanted to make it so that Facebook's nearly 500 million users would be forced to share more of themselves with the outside world. He's the one who believes that social norms are changing, that privacy is no longer the default setting coveted by Web users and that "a world that's more open and connected is a better world."

Clearly, this recent backlash over privacy at Facebook is all his fault.

Then again, maybe we shouldn't be so quick to condemn Mr. Zuckerberg.

Truth is, many of us still don't really understand Facebook. Sure, we know it's a site where we can chat with our friends, share pictures and play games that allow us to cultivate small armies of farm animals, but when it comes to understanding just how intertwined Facebook has become with our day to day lives, with the fabric of our emerging connected culture, we just don't know what to make of it.

Not anymore, anyway.

Never before has the world seen something like Facebook. Not since the birth of the Internet itself has such a disruptive technology changed the way we interact and experience the world around us. Average users and privacy watchdogs have only recently begun to understand the intricacies of the House that Zuck Built.

For many Web users -- including more than 15 million Canadians -- Facebook is their base of operations on the Web. Facebook is literally the public face they present to the world, it is their social circle and it is a perpetually updated yearbook all rolled into one. It's the little piece of online real estate they can call home.

In just six years, the population of Facebook has exploded from a few thousand Ivy League students to eclipse the combined populations of the United States and Canada. Indeed, among certain demographics in North America, non-Facebook users are something of an anomaly.

It barely classifies as a social network anymore. Facebook is a category unto itself. An island nation in cyberspace, governed by Mr. Zuckerberg from the company's Palo Alto, California headquarters.

The problem is, the laws of Facebookland keep changing.

Over the past six months, Facebook has unleashed a number of alterations to its privacy controls that not only made more of its users' personal data public by default, but also swelled the company's privacy options to 50 buttons, 170 choices and a word count that surpassed even the United States Constitution.

This week, Facebook bowed to public pressure and simplified its privacy settings, creating one single page where users can control whether their information can be seen by their friends, friends of friends or everyone on the Web.

Facebook also enabled users to block outside software developers -- the makers of the addictive games and quiz features that have become a staple of the service -- from accessing their personal information.

To ensure that companies aren't viewing your details, however, means shutting down your Farmville account and deleting the "Which Simpsons Character Are You?" application for your profile.

Still, if you talk to the Office of the Privacy Commissioner of Canada, even with the changes announced this week, Facebook is actually more open today than it was a year ago when the office concluded its 14-month investigation into the site's privacy controls, forcing sweeping changes.

Just how upset are users? When four New York-based college students started taking donations to help fund a project that would develop an open sourced Facebook rival where users' data would remain private, they raised more than $100,000 in a matter of months.

"Quit Facebook Day," an online protest started by a pair of Toronto men, will take place on Monday. As of press time, nearly 25,000 Facebook users had pledged to permanently erase their profiles from Facebook's database.

Facebook's citizens are angry. Many feel betrayed by a site which started out by offering them a chance to reconnect with long lost friends, organize parties and share photos in what felt like a closed, personal -- even private -- setting.

It's as though Facebook has broken an unwritten social networking contract with its users.

According to some philosophers, including the 17th century writer Thomas Hobbes, society or "the social" is only possible through the social contract, whereby citizens agree to surrender certain freedoms in exchange for order, peace and a relief from chaos.

With Facebook, users were willing to enter into the social networking contract offered by the company. In exchange for a personal homepage, a mechanism for connecting with friends, users were willing to let Facebook make money by helping marketers advertise to them based on the information in their profiles.

As Facebook's audience grew, so did the company's value to marketers. Based on the information at Facebook's disposal, advertisers could tailor their marketing to smaller and more targeted groups. Instead of advertising on car Websites outside Facebook, marketers could have their messages appear beside only the Facebook profiles belonging to users who said they liked Honda Civics or Ford Mustangs, thereby maximizing the return on their investment.

The problem is, Facebook kept changing the terms of the user contract. Information that wasn't meant to be public became widely available. Default settings were changed so that more information could be shared with the wider Web.

Of course, this was all part of Mr. Zuckerberg's plan to gradually spread Facebook's tentacles across the Web, through new social features and open graphs. The idea was that Facebook would become the default social standard that would blanket the Web.

Mr. Zuckerberg's vision is a world where newspaper Websites can show you stories recommended by your Facebook friends, where retailers can suggest items you might like based on your Facebook interests and where Internet radio stations customize playlists based on your favourite bands and the songs your friends say they like.

Just as newspapers and magazines are only as valuable to advertisers as their reader base, Facebook's value lies in its collection of members. Mr. Zuckerberg knows this. Without its captive user base sharing their lives with each other and with Facebook, the company wouldn't be worth an estimated US$15-billion.

Facebook's challenge lies in finding ways to encourage its users to open up about themselves, to share more information publicly, safe in the knowledge that it's not just good for Facebook, but it's good for them too.

But after this recent user backlash, questions are now being raised about just how social we're willing to be online. In an op-ed piece in the Washington Post this week, Mr. Zuckerberg admitted that perhaps Facebook moved too quickly in its quest to find new ways to "connect with the social Web and each other."

Mr. Zuckerberg believes that the social norm has evolved over time and that people are less concerned about privacy and more willing to share today than ever before.

Maybe he's right. How else do we explain our obsession with Facebook, reality television, blogging and services like Twitter?

Of course, the mere existence of Facebook as a central tenet of Western culture will continue to alter our notions of privacy. Things we consider private today may seem inconsequential in five years time.

Still, how social is too social? It's a question that will need to be answered by not just Facebook, but also by Twitter, Foursquare and other social connection services. As social networking gravitates towads mobile devices and smartphones -- and advertisers are able to target users based not just on their information, but also their location -- people will have to decide just how plugged into the social Web they're willing to be.

If anything, this recent rebellion from the citizens of Facebookland shows that at least some users aren't quite ready to share in Mr. Zuckerberg's vision of the future.

At least, not yet.

mhartley@nationalpost.com



Read more: http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=3084666#ixzz0pHop9PRA

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Toronto: Ontario Science Centre











We went to the Ontario Science Centre.
I found the formula for making the bubbles interesting and one day I should try it.
Kirsten just treats it like her shampoo...





Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Children's Festival













We went to see National Acrobats of Taiwan and Michel Lauziere at Children's Festival.
We were amazed to see the guy piling up at least 15 chairs straight up with the first chair's legs only touching the top of the champaigne bottles. So scary...
At the end of the show, the MC asked the audience "Which country were these people from?" Of course people or the kids said "Taiwan". But I am sure over a billion people from the other side of the strait may have other answer.
Finally got to see Michel Lauziere, what a talent...


Sunday, May 23, 2010

Cloverdale Rodeo
















































I always enjoyed the small community that I used to work in Cloverdale.
Now I can see Cloverdale has got lots of new residential development.
Cloverdale Rodeo is still the annual event that carries on for years.
This is the first time I went there.
It is more or less like PNE and perhaps the weather was better than expected, I saw quite a lot of young family carrying strollers too.

無私助人5個好人




It is so encouraging to see a newspaper media is reporting "good news" in A1.

Way to go for "Ming Pao" and those 5 brave and generous people who contribute.

"Good News", a truthful one with overt intention, always exists and needs to be known!


無私助人5個好人

紅十字會「香港人道年獎」嘉許



【明報專訊】香港社會以金錢掛帥,股市樓市暢旺,不少人為覓蝸居窮半生精力,有人則追求心靈富有。工程師高永賢於10年前毅然辭職,放棄屋仔、車仔、老婆仔、人仔的「四仔」大計,加入無國界醫生,付出黃金十年,四出救災扶貧;建築系教授吳恩融於內地義務建設,成立基金籌募建築費,為窮孩子搭起求學之橋。


香港紅十字會昨頒發香港人道年獎予連同上述兩人在內的5名義工,嘉許人道精神。眾得獎人不約而同說,獎項只是里程碑,人道救援工作的路仍遙遙。


明報記者 陳嘉婉 謝少莉


2nd passport picture




Now Kirsten is ready for her second passport picture.

Swing




Yes Kirsten!

Sunday, May 16, 2010

研究:兩歲懂說謊 出人頭地有機會

Hey Lucas, should I congratulate your sister?

研究:兩歲說謊 出人頭地有機會


【明報專訊】小孩兩歲就懂說謊,長大後有望出人頭地當總裁?姑勿論閣下是否認同,但這確是加拿大多倫多大學兒童研究所的一項研究結論。


《星期日泰晤士報》報道,研究員對1200名年齡介乎2至16歲的小孩,進行「說謊研究」。實驗中,有小孩夠膽謊稱「狗兒吃了我的功課(所以沒功課交)」,也有5歲小女孩明明被告知不准回頭偷看背後有什麼玩具,但卻照舊設法偷看,事後還向大人聲稱,知道它是恐龍玩具,是因為「上帝來到房裏悄悄告訴她」。 但研究員聲言,即使孩子年紀小小就能說出如此離譜大話,父母也許不用太擔心,因為幼童學懂說謊,實際反映他們的智能發展,已達重要的一步。


說謊出色者 認知能力佳


研究員發現,接受研究的孩童,大多數都會說謊,但謊話說得「最出色」的,都是那些認知能力較佳的小孩——他們已發展出「執行能」(Executive Function),懂得如何將真相拋諸腦後,好讓謊話說出來更具說服力。根據心理學概念,「執行能」協助兒童去注意哪些是重要的活動或任務,並決定先去執行哪一項任務;透過「執行能」,人可以規劃與組織活動,管理自己的情緒和想法,專注地把事情做得更有效果。


研究發現,兩歲的幼童有兩成會說謊,3歲時會升至50%,4歲時更幾乎達90%。到12歲時數字見頂,在這年紀幾乎所有孩子都說謊,之後走勢會回落,到16歲時,70%會說謊。


沒證據顯示會變騙徒


研究員稱,隨接近長大成人,青少年會學懂說善意謊言(white lies),以免傷害他人感受。研究員稱,沒證據顯示孩童說謊,與在考試出貓或長大後變成騙徒有任何關係;是否家教嚴厲或有宗教養育背景,亦沒有任何影響。反而健康聰明的孩子,會較快學懂講大話。一名教學專家說﹕「聰明的孩子說謊技巧較高。當某事不能容於他們的生活圈子中,多數少年人都會選擇說謊。若你長大後做生意,有時你也會希望『不盡不實』,避免說出真相的全部。」


星期日泰唔士報

Toronto: Casa Loma












We went to Casa Loma.

Casa Loma (Spanish for Hill House) is now a museum and landmark in uptown Toronto, constructed in the Gothic Revival style.
It was originally a residence for financier Sir Henry Mill Pellatt.
Casa Loma was constructed over a three-year period from 1911-1914.
The house cost approximately $3.5 million and took a team of 300 workers three years to build from start to finish.
Sir Henry was able to enjoy life in the house for only less than ten years, leaving in 1923 due to the hardship after the Great Depression.
The city seized Casa Loma in 1933 for $27,303 in back taxes.
In 1937 it was opened to the public for the first time as a tourist attraction operated by the Kiwanis Club of Toronto.
I saw the picture on the wall that was taken in 1938 when he was coming back the first time visiting his "Home" and signing at the front entrance as a "Tourist".
I was thinking about the similar scenery in movie "The Last Emperor" when the last emperor of China "Pu Yi" came back visiting and paying his pennies at the entrance of "Forbidden City" as a tourist where it was used to be his home.
Money was powerful but things can't necessary be bought back by money all the time.
I don't know how they felt but for sure that was a time one needs to be very humble about all things going on in the life...

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Boating










Boat, train and airplane are the typical favourites for boys.
When I was young, I like boat the best.
Here you can feel the nature in the most direct way.
We went to Granville Island for boat renting.
Lucas was just so excited...

Monday, May 10, 2010

っけ麵







I saw this っけ麵 from T&T and I wanted to give it a try.
It takes 8 minutes to cook and the noodle is very good and tasty!